Category: Childfree by Choice

And they say the childfree are selfish

My housemate is sick which means the whole house is sick and everyone we come in contact with will get sick.

It’s not surprising since my housemate runs a family daycare.

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What I regret about being childfee

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The amazing Juliewashere posted a new blog here asking her readers what they regret the most about being childfree. I thought I would respond with my own answer. My answers are strickingly simialiar to hers becase – we’re childfree by choice, a choice which isn’t made lightly and while some people regret their choices, you’d be hard pressed to find a childfree person that has interacted or grown up around children who regrets their choice to be childfree. Brace yourselves – sarcasm is coming.
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Childfree? We Know the Why, So What’s the How?

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Dr Amy Blackstone, PhD is our guest blogger for the day.

Enjoy!

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Childfree and gay – no surprise!

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In my experience being childfree and gay is slightly different to being childfree and straight based on the anecdotal evidence from childfree straight friends.

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More People Who Hate Your Childfreedom

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Because reddit.com is awesome, this post I reposted got a mention. The post included several great additions by redditers and from blog comments which I will list here.

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Calling yourself a parent to furbabies is offensive apparently

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I’ve already done a post on this letter but I want to revisit the letter and dismantle the condescending fail within it because I’m a bitch like that.

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A Letter To Insecure Parent Martyrs

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I’ve found this open letter to the childfree from a parent so I’ve decided to write my own. The open letter was directed at childfree people who consider their pets their children. The letter was quite nasty with an undertone of smug parental elitism.

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The 9 People Who Hate Your Childfreedom

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I didn’t write this myself; it was posted here. It was posted in response to this. Read more

What I’ve learned as a childfree person

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The number one thing I’ve learned as a childfree person is that people who are insecure about their choices to raise children don’t like our childfree status and never will.

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What your reasons to have children says about you.

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A few days ago a lovely reader left this .pdf outlining the various justifications as to why parents have children, the pdf as offers alternate explanations for those justifications. Today I want to look further into those justifications for having children.

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Guest Post: Mummy Martyrs at the Hiking Humanist and Golden Coathanger

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The wonderful lovelies over at the Hiking Humanist and The Golden Coathanger have done me a wonderful thing and guest blogged my post on Mummy Martyrs. Check them out here and here.

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Why I am childfree: A list

I often get asked why I don’t want children.

Answer: Because I don’t want them.

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Tips for parents who want to interact with the childfree

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Disclaimer: The below opinions are my own and do not reflect the opinions of the wider communities in which I identify with. If you feel the need to generalise my opinions to those wider communities, then you have just proven you can’t read this disclaimer nor understand its contents. As always, feel free to comment and share the blog post with your friends, families and enemies.

Note: This post only applies to parents that exhibit these behaviours – not all parents. I cannot stress this enough. Feel free to share my posts with everyone.

We all know people in general can be annoying. People can be tactless and insulting without realising it.

Today the people I’m talking about are parents.

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Moral Superiority or How to feel good by calling yourself names

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Disclaimer: The below opinions are my own and do not reflect the opinions of the wider communities in which I identify with. If you feel the need to generalise my opinions to those wider communities, then you have just proven you can’t read this disclaimer nor understand its contents.

Reminiscing on my Facebook this morning got me into the mood to write. I mentioned on my Twitter that I was feeling crappy. I’m feeling a little less shit than I was earlier. I’ve eaten rice, been startled (again) in the mirror because I’m not used to having blonde hair and have had a cat throw up on me.

Now that, that’s out of the way – on with the show.

Today’s grump tie’s in with this post on hypocrisy within the queer community except with a not-so-surprising twist – I’m extending it to apply to everyone.

E.V.E.R.Y.O.N.E.

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